You and I were probably never meant to be, but I loved every single second that I spent with you. You meant everything to to me, but to you, I was just another queen in the deck of cards.
In case you weren’t convinced that hating yourself is a learned behavior
Physical shame comes from parents, teachers, media, and peers. It’s not something you’re born with. You were born naked, wonderful, and gorgeous, and no one should make another being feel as if that wasn’t, and isn’t true.
You deserve people in your life who understand you at your core. Who don’t have misconceptions about your personality or your intentions. People who not only “get you” but also care about your wellbeing and won’t betray your trust.
“When I started, people were like, ‘What are you?’ I’m like, right now
I’m dating a guy. I don’t know what it’s going to be in three years. You
love who you love: black, white, polka-dot. That’s what my dad always
said. I’m never going to label myself. I could be 50 and
dating a woman and then what? I said I was straight and now I’m not?”
Let it be known: Shay Mitchell won’t be putting any labels on her sexuality.